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Many videos and news articles of the past says that couples who roam freely on Valentine's Day, are subjected to moral policing and the media will cover such incidents, which leads to public insult.

My places of interest are from north Indian states Uttar Pradesh and Uttarakhand. Roaming freely in the sense of going to hotels, restaurants, shopping malls, walking on roads, movies, staying in a hotel, park etc.,

Is it safe to roam in India with my girlfriend and is there any way to bypass those issues?

Note: This question has been asked in the male perspective.

Although the law is on your side, the people engaging in moral policing is on rise in these days, especially northern India.

Be cautious. Let me address the situations one by one.

• Going to restaurant - Safe


• Shopping Mall - Safe


• Walking on roads - Mostly Safe, refrain from PDAs (Public Displays of Affection)


• Movies - Safe, Stick to multiplexes.


• Park - Can be unsafe. Strictly abstain from PDAs, parks can be targets for hooligans


• Hotel stay - Depends, On higher end hotels, its not an issue. Or stay with couple friendly rooms. Most other smaller hotels outright rejects unmarried couples.

Take extra cautious and escape if such hooligans appears. Don't hesitate to call police on them. Sometimes, police can also get to moral policing like calling your parents, even if you are an adult. Law is completely on your side, use it.

In India, PDA (again, that means Public Display of Affection) is generally considered inappropriate, at least a lot more than in the US or in Europe. That includes kissing, hugging, sometimes holding hands while walking or over the table, or stuff like grinding). This is little related to Feb/14, but applies all year.

Couples walk all the time, talk, smile, laugh, and nobody cares, and larger cities tend to accept a bit of kissing also, unless it becomes serious making out.

Note that in many Indian cultures, it is not uncommon for men to hold hands with other men when walking, and that does not imply a homosexual relationship as in the western world, just good friendship. Of course, women touch each other too all on the time, with the same meaning - just good friends.

It is generally a good idea to learn and understand the culture of the country you visit, and maybe adjust behavior to show respect for it. So just leave the kissing part out when you are in India in public.

Adding to everybody's advice of no "Public Display of Affection" (PDA's), I think it's pretty safe to "just" roam around. I mean what could be the harm? Yes I know around this time of the year, we have "Bajrang Dal"(groups of people who search for lovers and beat them up if they are found doing PDAs) memes here in India but the ground reality is too many talk about joining such groups but most of them rarely actually do. Maybe they are busy with their own loved ones. I have never heard of any couple getting beaten down this way.
Ending with a little bit of my own experience, few years back I "roamed" around with a girl the whole Valentines week(in Delhi), and all went pretty well.